Turning that dreaded Practice into Play, ’cause Playtime is Happy time.
Spark their Enthusiasm in four ways
Get them inspired and watch them improve
So you’re a Suzuki parent. You understand that music making is greater, much more than following the Suzuki method. It is a philosopy, a way of life. It’s all about Nurturing by love.
Music making is more effective when it comes from the heart. So now, let me guess… you holler, “Time to sit down and practice”
And your kids come bounding in instantly, eager to get going?
Yeah, right!!
Hmmmm. It doesn’t happen at your house?
Well, it can. It just takes a little creative energy and some new ideas to try and you’ll all be off to a new start!
Let’s get that fire going
No. 1 You be the Enthusiastic Encourager.
Think back to your children’s first steps They wobbled and plopped on the ground. But didn’t you yell “Great effort! Go on, hop up! You can do it! ?”
Why not be just as encouraging when they’re developing ability to speak the language of music on whatever instrument they have chosen?
No. 2 Give Rewards.
Learning is hard work for most, and kids aren’t able to see the light at the end of the tunnel. So what if we were to treat them in the same way we’d treat a puppy?
Reward them after practicing.
What child won’t come cheerfully to find what their next reward will be?
You may think that older children wouldn’t be into stickers, but both young and old love stickers when they know that:
- 5 stickers turns into a pizza night
- 10 stickers means a bike ride
- 2 stickers means a tasty treat
Or whatever you know is a treat for your child! Rewards as they practice will ensure they don’t stall, but keep moving.
No. 3 Make a Daily Practice Chart.
List every piece that is to be practiced. Include a fun inspiring quote at the top. At the beginning of the week discuss the goals for the new music. Include the number of times each section is to be played.
You can use our copy… here it is:
No. 4 Use a Timer
Only set it for 15 minutes. Most kids can get their heads around the thought that they can manage 15 minutes. Let them know that when the timer beeps, it’s time to stop. They’re not allowed a second over!
They’ll play cheerfully while anticipating the glorious moment when they can STOP.
In order to meet their goals, they need to play for an hour a day. No worries. Doing anything for only 15 minute is easy
Especially when it’s really play.
Your attitude, your encouragement, your thrill as they accomplish their first steps, their toddling steps then their confident walking and running, holds the key.
You can be an Enthusiastic Encourager too!
Written by Merilyn Aveling-Rowe, mother of Stephen Aveling-Rowe who is a cellist, organist and creator of “My Heart Can Sing at Christmas” CD & DVD.
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